Sex Mistakes Men Make

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Update Date 09/12/2019 . 2 mins read
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Things that seem to be minor details may actually be huge mistakes that can harm your sexual relationship. Here are the most common mistakes men make in bed and how to avoid them:

Sex is confined in the bedroom

It takes time for women to get in the mood. Many men don’t know how much their women appreciate all the hugging, kissing, and holding hands. These acts of love help a woman feel safe in her relationship, which boosts her confidence during sex. Science proves that 30 seconds of hugging encourages the release of oxytocin, resulting in feelings of connection and trust.

Assuming you know everything

Surveys reveal a huge number of women fake orgasm for the sake of their partners. You may not know if your woman really enjoys it or not. If you love her and want to make her feel good, just ask her how she wants it. Tell her to give you directions on what she likes and dislikes.

Avoid changing things

Even if a certain thing worked a few times before, it doesn’t necessarily work this time or the next. What turns a woman on greatly depends on her mood at the moment. So, it will change. She may be sensitive in this area last time, but she may not be now. Therefore, it’s important to pay attention to how she responses to your touches and find out what works each time. If you figure out something that makes her feel good, continue it for a while. But, don’t make it a fixed ritual for your whole life.

Foreplay is all about being physical

To your surprise, women can be mental stimulated and mental stimulation may be even more pleasing. Most women enjoy fantasizing things during sex to arouse themselves. Why not try to help? Joining in with your woman and creating a mutual fantasy not only enhance your sexual satisfaction but also strengthens your relationship.

Expect intercourse to result in orgasm

This may come off as a wild theory, but women’s orgasm actually does not come from intercourse all the time. Most sex positions do not encourage clitorial stimulation – the foremost requirement for orgasm. Your woman takes more pleasure from other acts. Experts reveal that women orgasm more from oral sex. Vibrators are also helpful to push a woman up her peak. It’s high time men learned to treat sex toys as their assistants, not their enemies. As long as it makes your woman feel good, why not accept it?

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