At Which Time of the Day Do Men Feel Horny?

Many couples seem to have problems staying on the same page when it comes to the intimate part of their relationships. When you feel like you and your partner can’t rhythm with each other, it’s not just in your mind. Research proves that men and women crave for sex at different times during the day. Findings suggest women are horny at night while men are usually on fire in the morning.

Men are horny at 7:45 a.m while women wait till 11:21 p.m

The study mentioned above not only detects what part of the day men and women feel horny but also reduces the possibilities to an exact time point, which is 11:21 p.m. for women and 7:45 a.m. for men. Researchers believe those are the golden moments of sexual attraction for each gender.

A study conducted by Lovehoney, an UK sex toy brand, looked at 2300 people. It found that a great number of people experience the incompatibility in sex drive in their relationships. Surveys reveal as much as 68% women and 63% men were in a relationship with someone who did not match with them in terms of sexual desire.

How to cope with the differences in sexual desire

Regardless of the statistics, most people choose to stay in the relationship with those whom they can negotiate and come up with a sex frequency that suits them both. A majority of men and women reported enjoying their current relationship as they and their partner have come to a point when their sexual needs become mutual.

While there is a window of  15 hours between the peak of sexual desire for men and women, there’s still room for hope. It’s true that most men want to make love within the period from 6 a.m. to 9 a.m., whereas most women do not feel like it until 11 p.m. to 2 a.m. Fortunately, many people can feel in the mood between 9 p.m. and 11 p.m., although their desire may not be as strong as during the mentioned timeframe. Therefore, couples of different genders can at least get it on during that time.

Avoid sexual incompatibility may be helpful

It’s important to talk with your partner about your sexual preferences early in the relationship because straight and honest conversations will save you a lot of troubles. If you can only enjoy sex to the fullest between 2 a.m. and 6 a.m., you need to find someone with a common time preference. It’s not practical to delay sex talks in the hope that you two might be able to pace with each other eventually. If you discuss it early, you may avoid getting too close to someone whose needs conflict with yours.

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